Negotiation Skills for Handling Difficult Personalities

By RED BEAR April 23, 2024 | 6 min read

Whether in sales, procurement, or any other field involving negotiating, you've likely encountered a few formidable adversaries—difficult personalities that can derail even the most promising deals.

Maybe the person you’re negotiating with comes across as aggressive, or maybe they’re a bit indecisive and dragging the conversations out much longer than necessary. In other situations, negotiators can be overly demanding or downright skeptical and cynical. Knowing how to handle diverse personality types is not just a skill—it’s a necessity for achieving your desired outcomes.

Over the years in RED BEAR negotiation training sessions, we've shared deep insights into overcoming objections and navigating challenging situations. Negotiations almost always involve diverse personalities and perspectives, so mastering emotional intelligence equips negotiators with the tools to engage effectively and deftly manage challenging situations.

Let’s get into the skills necessary for negotiating successfully with all personalities.

What is Emotional Intelligence in Negotiation?

Emotional intelligence, or EQ, refers to the ability to identify and manage your emotions and the emotions of those around you. This skill plays a pivotal role in successful negotiations, especially when dealing with difficult personalities. 

EQ encompasses four key concepts:

  • Self-awareness: Understanding your own emotions and how they impact your behavior and decision-making.
  • Self-regulation: Controlling your emotions and responding appropriately rather than reacting impulsively.
  • Empathy: Recognizing and appreciating others' emotions and perspectives.
  • Motivation: Harnessing your emotions to achieve your goals while considering others' needs.

With high EQ, you can adapt your negotiation approach based on the personality you're dealing with. For example, an aggressive personality may require more empathy and self-regulation to de-escalate tensions, while a passive personality might need more motivation to ensure their voice is heard.

Here’s how high emotional intelligence can inform your negotiation strategies: 

  • Recognizing Emotional Cues: A keen awareness of verbal and nonverbal cues enables negotiators to discern underlying emotions and motivations, even amidst challenging interactions. By tuning into subtle indicators of emotional states, negotiators can tailor their approach and responses accordingly.
  • Adaptive Communication: Emotional intelligence empowers negotiators to adapt their communication style and tactics to suit the preferences and sensitivities of diverse personalities. Effective negotiators employ empathy and flexibility to foster rapport and bridge communication gaps, whether engaging with assertive decision-makers or reserved stakeholders.
  • Conflict Resolution: When conflicts arise, emotional intelligence guides negotiators in embracing the inherent tension, fostering constructive dialogue, and seeking mutually acceptable resolutions. By demonstrating empathy, active listening, and a commitment to understanding underlying concerns, negotiators can navigate impasses and cultivate win-win outcomes.

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Handling Objections from Difficult Personalities

Regardless of the personality type you're dealing with, objections are a natural part of any negotiation process. Understanding and addressing them effectively is crucial for reaching a successful agreement.

In sales negotiations, common objections may revolve around pricing, product features, delivery timelines, or concerns about your company's credibility. In procurement negotiations, objections related to costs, quality, or vendor reliability may also be involved.

To handle objections from difficult personalities, consider these strategies:

  • Active Listening: Pay close attention to the objection being raised, and demonstrate that you understand their perspective by restating or summarizing their concerns.
  • Clarification Techniques: Ask open-ended questions to gather more information and gain a deeper understanding of the root cause of the objection. This can help you address the real issue rather than making assumptions.
  • Appropriate Responses: Once you've fully understood the objection, craft a response that directly addresses their concerns. Support your position with examples, data, or personal experiences, and be prepared to compromise or propose alternative solutions when necessary.

So, how do you learn to harness the power of these tools in negotiation? One word: training.

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Investing in Sales Negotiation Training

While negotiating with difficult personalities can be challenging, investing in quality sales negotiation training or procurement negotiation training can provide you with the tools and strategies to navigate these situations more effectively. At RED BEAR, we understand the importance of ongoing skill development in this area.

Our training programs are designed to improve your emotional intelligence, enhance your ability to engage directly with all stakeholders and equip you with techniques for handling even the toughest objections. We take a practical, hands-on approach, combining theoretical concepts with real-world scenarios and role-playing exercises.

By investing in negotiation training, you'll not only gain a deeper understanding of personality types and how to adapt your approach accordingly, but you'll also develop greater confidence and resilience in the face of difficult negotiations.

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Negotiate Successfully with All Personalities

The ability to negotiate effectively with diverse personalities is an invaluable skill that can significantly impact your success in any field. While it can be a constant learning curve, embracing the challenges and viewing them as opportunities for growth can be a rewarding mindset.

At RED BEAR, we believe that you can turn even the most difficult negotiations into successful outcomes with the right training and mindset. Our strategies and techniques are designed to help you navigate any situation, from aggressive negotiators to indecisive ones and everything in between.

Don't let difficult personalities hinder your progress or cause you to miss out on valuable opportunities. Invest in your negotiation skills today, and unlock the power to achieve your goals, no matter who's on the other side of the table.

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